Many tend to take the relationship for granted, and as a result end up hurting the one they love the most. They find themselves face to face with an opportunity that may become successful for awhile, but sooner or later what goes around will eventually come around. If he truly loved you, he would not even for a second think twice about giving his sincere love and devotion to anyone else but you- He would respect you! If you are finding yourself in a situation where you are questioning his honest love and devotion to you, then it's not meant to be and only you can truly figure this out and decide what you think you deserve....do you want honest love and commitment, or do you want to be second best.
The men who hurt women are cowards. The self-esteem has not been established. You can blame it on a bad childhood but there are great guys who grew up all messed up and decided that their life was not going to be like that. It is a decision that they make. Run fast and hard from them because they very rarely change no matter what they say. At least keep your self esteem.
Why are men so afraid of being loved? And what is it that made them afraid to begin with? Was it society that taught them that love is actually a bad thing?
Why then does it have to be so complicated? And why is it that women are always the ones who are accused of having low self-esteem? It seems to me that if anyone, it would be the men who would get this reputation since they're the ones who are refusing love. A hards lesson learned: I refuse to settle for the notion that we are to just "accept" the way men are because we deserve to have our needs met and to be with someone who knows how to meet them. So are we just supposed to give up on love? That's kind of a sad thought, though I'm not sure what else the alternative would otherwise be.
Friends and family would suggest we love ourselves more and that would just solve everything. While I do believe it necessary to love one's self to one's utmost ability, I also believe that it is in human nature - or perhaps just women's nature - to love another. I'd say my confidence is pretty decent; I am pleased and satisfied with who I am, but it just seems as though there's something missing. Or maybe love is over-rated anyway. Maybe society created love, I don't know. All I know is that love can hurt a hell of alot, and is it really worth all the pain and heartache that goes along with it?