Today's Topic: Dating A Coworker

How funny that today I want to talk about dating a coworker.  It's just a coincidence that it actually happens to be "Hump Day" too.  Haha ANNNNYWAY.  I have mixed feelings about today's topic.  Part of me wants to say it's an absolute NO-NO and you probably shouldn't S*&^T where you eat...  Is that even the right saying?  Well what I mean is... it's probably not the best idea to start a relationship with a coworker because it could affect your job or career in the future. 

I guess the biggest downside of dating a coworker is what happens if you break up?  Even worse, what happens if the break up is NASTY and you want to kill each other?  How will you be able to work together? I guess the only answer to all these questions is you'll just have to take that risk and cross that bridge when and if you get it.  Now that "IF" is a possibility... I know a few people that met their boyfriend, girlfriend, even husband and wife at work.  And they couldn't be happier.  I dated a coworker a few years ago and it was great when we were together, but then it did get tough if we were having an argument and then we still had to see each other at work and be all smiles.  It's even harder if he dumps you and you still have to be civil with him every day.  It was tough, but I just had to focus on my job and not let my personal life affect my work.

So here's how I see it... if you think Chris in the mailroom is hot and you just want a summer fling with him and that's it, I say control yourself and resist the temptation of his gorgeous blue eyes.  It's not worth the rumors and awkward moments of silence when you two end what you had.  But if you really connect with Chris and have never met a guy that makes you melt the way he does... I don't know... I say go for it??? In the end I'm a hopeless romantic and totally believe in fate.  I don't know if that's the best way to think in this situation but it's always exciting at the beginning, the secret emails, the flirting, etc.  Just use your best judgment... if you work in a small office it might be tougher than a large company.  It's not impossible to date a coworker but just remember if it ends then be prepared for the consequences.  Just something to think about.

XOXO,

Sisanie